About Cassidy
Who Am I?
My name is Cassidy.
I am a Love, Relationship + Life Coach.
In 2018, I co-created Abundant Couples with my partner Matt, with a mission to spread more love in this world. We also created a relationship podcast of the same name to further spread our messages of love, personal growth, lifestyle freedom and self-actualization.
I truly believe that we ALL have the capacity for deep love, incredible relationships, and a life that we are totally ecstatic about, and I dedicate myself to helping you actualize these things within your own life.
I'm known as a perpetual optimist, a master manifestor, a true Leo, and a full-hearted lover.
I am a world-traveller who doesn't stay in one place for long, and I feel at home wherever I am.
Becoming a Love, Relationship + Life Coach has been a journey of experimentation and self-discovery, driven by curiosity and an insatiable thirst for learning and growth.
The Love Story
I was blessed (and surprised) to meet my soulmate on the high school school bus. After a couple of years of getting to know each other, we officially got together at the age of 16.
I taught him to play the guitar, he taught me to play chess, and we geeked out on Harry Potter together. To our surprise (since we were not part of the popular crowd - or any crowd, really), we ended up as prom king and queen; people told us that our relationship inspired them.
Not every day has been sunshine and rainbows, but we’ve worked hard to continue to spiral up together.
We’ve had many adventures, and the biggest, most rewarding one of all has been embarking on the path of relationship growth, and turning our relationship into our superpower.
The Dream
Together we went off to university and made our first home, full of musical instruments and books and love.
During this time we had our first business venture together, through a student entrepreneurship program. We ran a residential painting business for 3 summers and broke the all-time record for sales and production at the time.
After this experience we both realized that continuing in university and following a typical career path was not what we wanted. But we also loved to learn.
So we left school, and the next semester, rather than spending thousands of dollars on textbooks, we went to the bookstore and spent hundreds on books that caught our interest: personal growth, business, finances, health, philosophy, and spirituality.
It became a regular practice for us to co-create a clear vision for our future.
When we asked ourselves, “what does our ideal life look like?”, it was something like this:
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Have the freedom to travel whenever we want, and spend much of the year in tropical places
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Work on projects we are passionate about, and share our gifts with the world
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Have friends who inspire and uplift us
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Continually learn and grow
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Have lots of adventures
With this vision pulling us powerfully into our desired reality, we got to work on the actions that would make it happen.
- We enrolled ourselves in courses on personal growth, business and real estate investing
- At 21 years old, with no money, we started a real estate investing business and bought our first 3 properties in the first 5 months, and continued to scale from there
- I became a real estate agent for 3 years, and created a team of agents and a large networking group
Even though we had achieved many of the things we wanted to in our lives, there was some kind of je ne sais quoi missing.
We were experiencing a lot of growth in business, health, mindset, and spirituality. But at some point, we realized that this same level of growth was not happening in our relationship.
We wondered, what would happen if we took this same approach of continual growth and learning and applied it to our relationship? What might be possible?
This began our journey into studying relationships, sex, and love.
The Struggle and the Shift
As a real estate agent, I was hustling hard and staying busy. One day, when I felt tired and overwhelmed, I sat on the couch beside Matt and cried into his arms. "I don't want to do this anymore!" I sobbed. "I don't know what I want to do, but it's not this!".
Matt said something that I am still so grateful for to this day:
He said, "That's okay. You can stop at any time. It's okay if you don't know what you want to do. Take some time to figure it out. I've got you".
So, I sold my real estate team and networking group, and I allowed myself, for the first time, to do nothing.
I gave myself the time and space to connect deeply with myself, without the pressure of needing to produce physical results in the world.
I discovered that I had been disconnected from my body.
I had previously thought that I was not a very sexual person. I believed that I just didn't enjoy sex as much as most people, and definitely not as much as Matt.
I thought that maybe I was asexual, and I had accepted that this is just how I was.
Everything changed when I started hearing stories of other women who were disconnected from their sexuality, and the transformations they experienced when they reconnected to their bodies and awakened their sexual energy.
I learned that this is possible for everyone, and this inspired me to step into the unknown, face my resistance and fear, and embark on my own journey of sacred sexuality.
The Practice
Matt and I committed to a sacred sexuality practice together, which created a beautiful safe container for growth and transformation.
Over the next years, our practice deepened and expanded, and my mind was blown over and over again by the powerful healing experiences and the ripple effects in my life that came as a result of our practice.
I began to realize that everything is connected - my connection to my body and my sexual energy impacts my creative power, my business, my finances, my relationship, and my health.
I experienced so many benefits from our practice...
- I was able to express myself more fully in the world.
- I flowed with life, and my days took on a shiny, sparkly quality.
- I cultivated deeper connections with friends, and got clarity on my unique gifts and how I want to be of service in the world.
- I cultivated my connection with the divine.
- I found so much peace by anchoring in the infinite love that is already always within me.
- As a couple, we experienced firsthand the superpower that a conscious relationship can become. Although our relationship was good before, the work that we’ve done has brought out a sweetness and depth of connection that we didn’t even know was possible.
I know that this kind of healing, transformation, and connection is available to anyone who is willing to step into the unknown, journey into themselves, and commit wholeheartedly to their growth.
Now, I have coupled my personal experiences with deep study and training in Tantra, Taoist sacred sexuality, Relationship skills, habits and behavioural change.
Today, Matt and I are financially independent, and we continue to travel the world, learn and create. Our real estate investment business is thriving under Matt’s leadership, and I continue to answer my heart’s calling to spread more love in this world. More important than these outward accomplishments is the undercurrent of love and purpose that has made them all possible.
I am inspired beyond words to help as many people as possible awaken to their own potential, experience deeper love than ever, and make the behavioural shifts in their lives to support and maintain all of this transformation.
Work with Cassidy
I coach a small number of people with a tailored, 1-on-1 approach. Learn more about my coaching services here:
My Top 5 Signature Strengths:
HONESTY
LOVE
LOVE OF LEARNING
GRATITUDE
HOPE
Training
Sivananda Yoga Teacher 200hr YTTC
Certified Heroic Performance Coach
... countless personal growth courses like Landmark Forum, Tony Robbins Unleash the Power Within, Millionaire Mind Intensive, and more
... transformational experiences through women´s retreats, shamanic healing, somatic and sexual work, and plant medicine ceremonies